i would say number 2, but that 9250 will slow you down in gaming, get a 9600pro or XT don't buy SE version, they are real crap not recommended for gaming, and about ram, it's enough for now, for both gaming and work, but you'll have to upgrade to 1 gig eventually, the cpu is great i heard that it could be oc'ed to the same performace as fx-55.
this is a perfect card for your needs:
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Produc...82E16814102510