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Old 01-28-2006, 09:04 PM   #1 (permalink)
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need some advice. i suspect my ex was with another guy before we broke up when she had a miscarriage a few months ago, i have some e-mails from her that i know for a fact came from his home computer before, and some more emails a few days after she lost the baby(I was traveling and couldn't get back in time). the ip trace on the ones after the miscarriage come back to the same city and isp as the emails from when i know she was with him, not the city 30 miles away that she claims she was in. Is there any way on a yahoo email's internet header to see if emails originated on the same computer, like a computer signature or something? i can copy and email the headers to anyone that is willing to help. thanks.
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Old 01-28-2006, 09:44 PM   #2 (permalink)
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First, this should be in the off topic section.

Second, this isnt really the place to ask this, try a relationships forum.
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Old 01-28-2006, 10:06 PM   #3 (permalink)
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First, this should be in the off topic section.

Second, this isnt really the place to ask this, try a relationships forum.
I dont think a relationships forum would help n this case, ebcause he needs help on a comptuer side issue here to trace the e-mails.

I Don't know hwo to help you but I have a question...If she's your "ex" then whats the problem with being with somehow else? How could she "cheat" on you.
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Old 01-28-2006, 10:30 PM   #4 (permalink)
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because we supposedly parted on good terms and stay in touch, but now im beginning to suspect she was lying the whole time and the baby may not have been even mine. look, i and my family went through so much pain and agony and now i find out it may have been over nothing. i caught her in a few lies and gave her the chance to tell the truth and she lied some more. I'm 90% sure but just want to confirm my suspicions. I have to know, just for peace of mind and to be able to put this behind me.It's a long story and don't want to really get into it, but i've blamed myself for stuff that happened and if find out that she wasn't really as innocent as i thought and she was also alot to blame i will feel a ALOT better and will be able to forgive myself. I'm not going to do anything, I live along way away and just want to be able to call her and say that i know the truth. I want to close this chapter in my life and move on but i can't until i confirm my suspicions. I can't stand not knowing for sure. look, all i want to know is can i or can't i tell if two different emails came from the same computer and how? please, any advice as to the subject will be appreciated.
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If you are pretty sure the child is not yours, and it's a matter of child support.you will have to get a blood and possible DNA test done to confirm your suspicions.
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need some advice. i suspect my ex was with another guy before we broke up when she had a miscarriage a few months ago, i have some e-mails from her that i know for a fact came from his home computer before, and some more emails a few days after she lost the baby(I was traveling and couldn't get back in time). the ip trace on the ones after the miscarriage come back to the same city and isp as the emails from when i know she was with him, not the city 30 miles away that she claims she was in. Is there any way on a yahoo email's internet header to see if emails originated on the same computer, like a computer signature or something? i can copy and email the headers to anyone that is willing to help. thanks.
Send me EXACTLY the header of Yahoo e-mail when you received the mail & send the DETAILED header (change the setting from Mail Option, if necessary) & I should be able to tell you the approximate location, most likely the city name & perhaps the name of the service provider as well.
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Old 01-30-2006, 03:14 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Sorry, but I have 2 words, Computer Forum unless your EX is a computer then...
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This is definately the wrong place.

Best bet? She's your ex and you aren't getting back together. Therefore, ask her for the truth, upfront. Regardless of what she tells you, you will likely already "know" what you want to believe. But if you think it would help...
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Old 01-30-2006, 08:55 PM   #9 (permalink)
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You might want to try a stalker forum...roflmao!
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This happens to be the wierdest place to put this type of post up and is way to personal to be telling complete strangers!
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