Turn off all the security features on both systems. meaning turn off any and all firewalls on you computer, turn off antivirus also.
On the router turn off wireless security, and if you have it enabled turn off Mac address filtering. Use DHCP for default. Then see if it will connect.
Basically you are tyring to bring the connection to its lowest amount of crap running.
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