It won't even let you into the BIOS? Wow, something is very wrong. Yor RAM needs 2v, ya, the industry now sets the defualt voltage to 1.8v, you will have to adjut that once you get there. You will probly have to set RAM timings also, the Patriot site will have the correct timings for your RAM.
I am working on another computer right now and it has a similar problem. My friend has liquid cooling and his computer would only run for about 20 seconds and then re-boot, I could not get into the BIOS either. Turns out, his pump had failed and the processor was over heating and tripping the shut down temp. You could hear the pump run but no colant was being moved through the lines. Not to insult your intellagence, but you do have a cooler on the processor correct? Is it attached correctly?
Maybe check the cables again. One of my builds would not start up at all. I did some looking around and found the problem after about 2 hours. The cable that runs from the PSU to the 9800 GTX is six pin on both sides. It fits together both ways, I just grabbed a cable and slapped it in. Well, I guess you have to have it a certain way, I had it backwards, you would never know, it is not marked or anything. Hopefully it is something as simple as that.
What do you have for a PSU? People under estimate the importance of a good name brand PSU. I think it is the most important piece, what ever you do, don't skimp on the PSU.
Do you have the 4 pin power cable attached to the motherboard also? I have seen a guy do that. He had the 24 pin but not the 4 pin attached.