Let me provide an analogy, if you don't understand already.
Russia is fighting the United States. Russia runs out of troops. Without shared memory, Russia is as good as gone. With shared memory, Russia can draw extra troops from another battle they are fighting versus the British if it needs to. The fight versus Britain would be cpu load and the fight versus the United States would be video card load.
Typically the cpu in a computer will be doing less work than the gpu during gaming. It is also typical that one has more system memory than gpu memory.
Now, Russia didn't get better weapons, (gpu) they just got more troops (memory). The only downside to this is that the fight versus Britain has less troops.
Hope this helped. It was fun typing.