bother with what?
it oc's itself along with the cpu, but you can use a memory divider... which is basically a memory multiplier thats less than 1... for instance if you set a 166mhz memory divider on a computer like mine, with fsb/core speed of 200mhz, then the memory would be 166mhz... its like multiplying it by 166/200 which is .83, so .83*200=166mhz.
if you were to overclock the fsb/core speed to 240mhz instead of 200mhz, then it would likewise multiply 240mhz*.83 and come up with about 199.2mhz... which would be the memory speed.
there are all sorts of memory dividers and fsb/core speeds out there.
with your core 2 duo it'll have an fsb/core speed of 266mhz default, and the cpu multiplier is 8 so it's approximately 2.13ghz correct?
well, it depends on what memory you get, and im not 100% sure how the memory controller works on an intel motherboard... but it will overclock it along with the core speed/fsb... and if you overclock it too much it could be a problem... meaning you could get the cpu to 2.6ghz and it wouldnt boot, when the cpu isnt the problem, the memory is the problem. you could get past 3ghz with that processor on default voltage though, if you use a memory divider... or you could raise the memory's voltage too, or loosen (raise) its timings.