there's like, um... tons of ways to get an ip.. what i usually do is just send a simple email sayin' hey what's happenin' or somethin' along those lines and ask a question... and just view the header files, just go to options or whatever and click full for message headers or whatever... when you get your email it should look something like this
Received: from xw8.bestneted.com ([64.70.53.140]) by mc9-f3.hotmail.com with Microsoft SMTPSVC(5.0.2195.6824); Sun, 22 Aug 2004 12:04:32 -0700
X-Message-Info: JGTYoYF78jEU5M8PY78WWckgOb3gD3+z
Message-Id: <2vhdq1$1bfpkg@xw8.bestneted.com>
X-Confirm-Reading-To: 460019191
Return-Path:
ouwx105441mjzm@wva.betsntbt.com
X-OriginalArrivalTime: 22 Aug 2004 19:04:32.0332 (UTC) FILETIME=[DB81C8C0:01C4887A]
we're assuming 64.70.53.140 is the ip of the sender. just fire up your browser and type in
http://visualroute.visualware.com/ register and then put in your pin... type in the ip and hit trace... it's pretty nice, it won't tell you exact address but usually get realitivly close, you can freak out people, it's pretty cool.