Aggressive timings have their benifits and high-clock speeds have their benifits. I cant remember which is which but one favors burst mode and the other favors accesstime (i think clock speed favors burst mode however) so really it doesnt matter all
that much however for people with specialized requirements (i.e., video editing where massive chunks of data are being transmitted so a higher clock on the memory would be ideal). For people dealing with lots of simultaneous accesses in memory, aggressive timings are the route to go.... of course if you push for either aggressive timings or high clock speed then "avg gamer Joe" should be fine.