computers brake our social life!

I somewhat agree. Theres never a time that im not on computer. Im on all day and all night. Even at school im on computer during class. It's just so kickass and addicting.
 
me too, ive lost lot of friends, now i have just few.im always on the net and reading and reading, tutorials, newspaper, forums, etc.
im single and i never go out, i dont think that i need a girlfriend. my back got problem(curve), ive got glasses last week. my computer teacher told me that i have to stop. i try but i cant.
now i feel that im not like other boys at my age, it is hard for me to find new friends.
 
alexandergre said:
me too, ive lost lot of friends, now i have just few.im always on the net and reading and reading, tutorials, newspaper, forums, etc.
im single and i never go out, i dont think that i need a girlfriend. my back got problem(curve), ive got glasses last week. my computer teacher told me that i have to stop. i try but i cant.
now i feel that im not like other boys at my age, it is hard for me to find new friends.
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you have problems, seriously... No it doesnt break social interaction, of course it doesnt, yeh, you spend time on a PC, a lot of time, so do i, that doesnt mean you cant have a socail life.
 
OK.... I am on the computer quite a bit, but i don't have social problems. On the contrary, im usually hanging out with friends, or my girlfriend more then I am on a computer. I mean, computers are cool, but not great.
 
Heya

I am a computer addict, I have to admit. However, when I had a girl, I did not spend more than one hour on it per day. However, now that I am in the process of looking for a new one, my love is my computer. I do have many friends and I do have a social life too, just to let you know.

Now my suggestion to you is to use the PC for a set period per day, no more. Go out and meet new friends, find a girl, the rest will evolve naturally and you will find your pc is no longer that important.

JAN :D
 
i agree with you guys, i really have to stop it.
since ive become like this i dont think that i need a girl. my mom thinks that im gay but im not. my grades at school are awesome even if i dont study five min at home. last year ive gone to math and physics Olympics. so i guess every thing is alright. but the only problem that i have is the contact between me and people.
 
Im a computer addict but I still have like my hundreds of friends and still socialize with them and well family I don't really care bout it's not important to me. I still go out and all but even when I go out I go on the the cell phones internet and all. So basically im addicted to computer but still social.
 
SirKenin said:
Haven't I told you a million times not to exaggerate? :P
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Wanna see my msn list? Lol...

Im in high school what do you expect. Theres 1600 kids in my school and I know them all and talk to all of them minus a couple people and most also bc ive known since elamentry school.
 
it really depends on the individual and whether you let it consume you. some people can balance it but some gamers or builders are just too obsessed with computers and internet.
 
I admit i spend most of the day on my computer and most of the night on my laptop but i still have a gf a good social life i go out drinking at the weekends.

so no it only takes over ur life if you let it

Dan
 
I think my lack of broadband has kept me from losing my social life. 26Kbps dialup FTW!!! I have at least 5-6 people I talk to in each class at school, most of them don't know sh*t bout computers and I tend to stay away from the dorks, nerds...etc. I don't like to talk about comps all the time, when I'm with my friends we talk about......anything that comes to mind and we have very weird little minds hehe.
 
Computers don't break our social life at all. You're breaking your own social life, all by yourself. It's not the computer. Sure, the computer is the thing which you spend all your time on - but you're the one choosing to spend so much time on it.

I have quite a few friends, I'm known throughout my school (of around 2000 people) and I spend most of my days after school playing my guitar, browsing the internet, doing homework, or watching TV. Fridays evenings are spent at a youth club. Weekends; Saturday is spent going out with the band (3 of my best friends) and Sunday is spent at Church.

My advice: Get into a weekly routine, like mine perhaps, other than letting a computer consume most of your time. Find a different hobby, and then find others who are interested in that hobby.

One of the best ways of 'learning' to socialise is by joining a youth club. You're surrounded by loads of people of similar ages, and it gives you a chance to get to know new people. You'll begin to make friends once you keep going back, and then you'll being to spend time with them outside of the youth club.

:)
 
No computers don't break our social life. It's the excessive use of computers that break it.

I admit I spend like 5 hours in front of my pc during this holiday. But I still go out with some friends regularly. I took the geek test and they said I'm a semi-geek.;)
 
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