right off you mixed two different types of memory which essentially is a "no no" there. The fact that both work with only one dimm in means both are compatible but not with each other as one cancels the other out.
Whenever adding more memory or replacing memory you first want to match what you already have installed as far as type and generall speed but certainly timings and type to avoid problems. Now you have to choose which you will keep in and add more of that particular type hopefully identical.