I hear you can use two different ones, but they MUST have the same chipset. In other words, you could use say a 7600GT with 256M RAM, and a 7600GT with 512M RAM. However, the whole setup would only have 256M VRAM. You CAN'T use a 7600 and a 7800.
As far as I know they must have the same GPU, i'm not sure if a 256 + 512 would work, but I guess it's possible. But no, you can't use a card such as a 7600GT and 7600GS in SLI.