I believe I bought dual sided dimms, they have memory chips on both sides of the card and the ones that came in the computer don't.
I guess this is the problem, that sucks!!!
The single sided dimms will only see a row of ICs on one side only. This is one of the main problems seen on the older prebuilds where there are limits on the memory you can run. Apparently like I thought the board runs strictlly the single sided or strictly value type ram.