Wow. I am amazed. What the hell is the matter with you peoples parents? They cannot shelter you forever. When you go out in the world and are a pushover, you can safely turn around and blame your mormon parents. Unfortunately, bad things do happen in the world, there are bad guys out there. I mean no disrespect to any of the parents in question but it is not a good thing at all to be overbearing. The worlds harsh realities, good and bad, need to be experienced and adjusted to in moderation. When one is sheltered so severely, the first experience of a euphoric, whether good or bad, experience can often lead to bad consequences. Perfect example: A guy I went to high school with who was the class salutorian had very controlling parents. They would choose his classes for him and from the time he got home from school until his bedtime (yes he had a bedtime even as a senior in HS), they would monitor him. When we graduated he went to University of Michigan on a full academic scholarship. One of the smartest people ive ever met. What happened in the first two months there? He did not know how to handle living on his own, social situations, the immense pressure of college, and making his own decisions. Within the first two months, he had been to the hospital twice for alcohol poisoning (had to have his stomach pumped), became really depressed, and dropped out of school. I truly beleive had he experienced the good and bad of life, in moderation of course, this never would have happened.