Have you seen anything around Dirt Rally?
My roommate has Dirt Rally. It's a lot more realistic than Dirt 3 is in terms of handling and the like. Doesn't seem to have nearly as much content in it though, only a handful of cars and tracks.
Dirt 3 is really fun, but I want to bash my screen in everytime I get told "DUDE THAT WAS AWESOME, POST IT ON YOUTUBE FOR ALL YOUR FANS".